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If every being
on the planet experiences an exact match to their thoughts
and beliefs in every area of their lives then, as my wise
wife has pointed out, there is a problem. Such a system
only works if people are aware of the basic laws of the
universe. It is necessary, then, to educate and inform
others, otherwise the Law of Attraction simply becomes an
excuse to hold people down, an excuse to buttress the status
quo, where the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.
The Law of
Vibration and the Law of Attraction guarantee, however, that
even a caveman in Outer Mongolia could change his life in
any way he chooses. Let’s say our secluded fellow, for some
reason, acquired a burning interest in universal principles.
Some trader or herdsman would wander along who was an exact
vibrational match to the caveman's desire, they would get
to talking, and he’d be on his way.
The universe
has the property that like attracts like, and all thoughts,
ideas, and desires must find an exact match. That is the
origin of synchronicity, or coincidence. It seems
outrageous, but those living in dire straits do so because
their desire for change is not strong enough to override
their powerful attention on the current reality. If help is
not being attracted, then it is not truly wanted.
Many people
have a misunderstanding about the Law of Attraction. It is
thought by some that a few fleeting thoughts about
abundance should be enough to overcome a strong vibration of
lack. This is not so. In a vibrational universe, the
stronger vibration wins out over the less powerful one. It
is always possible to tell your true vibrational mix by
looking at your life. Your socio-economic status, the
character of your relationships, the state of your health,
to name a few, are all an exact reflection of the content of
your thoughts and beliefs. Because the power of thought and
belief is not recognized on our planet, children are not
taught to be mindful. As a result, many of us grow up with
bad habits of thought. When it comes time for change,
therefore, an established and habitual vibrational pattern
is often very difficult to transcend. The conscious
formation of a pattern or thought and belief (a
weltanschauung, or worldview) is the responsibility of every
conscious being. However, the Law of Attraction and the Law
of Vibration respond individually to each and every one of
us. Universal principles are our obedient servants, and they
will serve us whether we are aware of them or not!
Therefore, a true and strong desire for something,
regardless of current conditions, will eventually lead to a
successful outcome.
Those who
desire to help others should be aware of the operation of
universal laws. Let's say a great philanthropist with a lot
of money decides she will educate the entire masses of
planet earth into greater awareness. She spends a few
billion dollars advertising on TV, radio, and newspapers;
she hires people who travel to remote villages everywhere in
the world, spreading the philosophy that everyone is
capable of living lives of great abundance and peace. What
will happen? Only those who are a vibrational match to this
philosophy will resonate with it. It could be on TV and
radio every day, but if someone does not resonate to the
message, it will not sink in! That is why it is futile, and
unnecessary, to help a person who is not asking for your
help. You are not a vibrational match to their desire. If
you were, then your help would have been requested, or at
least accepted.
Have you ever
been accosted by someone who just had to convince you of
some idea or belief of theirs? Didn't you find it
irritating? I know I did! And why is that, do you suppose?
Because you know what you want. Deep down inside, you know
you don't need to be "saved" or convinced by anyone else to
a certain point of view or way of living. And guess what?
If it is true for you, then it is true for everyone else as
well. Even the drunk on the street corner knows it, and
lives his life accordingly.
It is not
possible to know the life purpose of another, or how they
are thinking or feeling, even though it is sometimes painful
to see how another is 'ruining his life.' Just as we would
like to think others respect our life process, so we too
must respect those of our fellow human beings. And so it is
not necessary to change another. The desire to help often
comes from the idea that someone needs to change "for the
better." That is a judgment of them, and can never be
successful. Only help that is requested, and given from an
open heart, can be of value.
Every human
being is sovereign in his or her own experience. Each
incarnated being on earth is an aspect of universal
consciousness, immortal, enjoying a physical experience. It
is not for any one of us to decide for another how he or she
should live! That would be arrogant in the extreme, in my
view.
An assertion
that it is obligatory to help others living in unacceptable
conditions sometimes stems from an idea that such persons
are less fortunate. It comes from an idea that they are
"less than" we are. Is a herdsman in Mali less fortunate
because he does not have a microwave or a computer? I have a
feeling that this gentleman could care less about such toys.
It is not possible to know every thought, feeling and desire
of our fellow beings, and therefore we cannot say
accurately what is their purpose for being on earth. As
I'm sure you have experienced, sticking your nose uninvited
into someone else's life can cause trouble for both of you,
regardless of how heartfelt are your intentions.
The only way to
know whether your help is truly needed, is if it is
requested.
A request does
not have to be verbal, of course. The lady struggling with a
heavy package, and in obvious distress, could use a
little help going up the stairs. However, the Law of
Attraction tells us that unless vibrational asking and
giving are congruent, any help given will not be successful.
Fairness
abounds. All is in perfect balance. All are receiving
precisely what they are focusing upon. And if a person
desires change, then the Law of Attraction will see to it
that each will receive exactly according to their desire.
Some might say
that this is heartless. After all, why shouldn't everyone
get to experience abundance, not just a few? Well, abundance
is in the eyes of the beholder. Our herdsman with a dozen
good cattle may feel far more abundant than an apartment
dweller with all of his amenities, especially if he has
trouble making the rent every month!
Allow others to
live in the way they have chosen, and lo and behold, they
will do the same for you. When busybody cousin Kate finally
understands that her nosiness is not appreciated, she
becomes a lot more likeable. The family actually looks
forward to seeing her on holidays, and Kate’s life becomes
much more agreeable.
Look upon your
fellow beings as magnificent, powerful creators, just as
you are, orchestrating their experiences according to their
desires. Is this not a better way to view the world? To
know that as bad as conditions are from your point of view,
each person is just as powerful and magnificent as you are?
This is an empowering view of people, and it just happens to
be the truth. And it lets you off the hook. Now you do not
have to feel guilty for others and how they live. You do not
have to shoulder the burdens of the world, for they are not
yours to solve. You can simply look upon others in joy, no
matter how they are living. And when you feel joy, you
spread it around to others, in every moment of your life.
Now that's what
I call real help!
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